Everyone has felt it at one time or another: You get nervous
before a speech or a big test, and your palms begin to sweat. Or,
perhaps you just feel a general unease about your health, finances
or family life.
A sense of uneasiness about the future is generally known as
anxiety. These feelings affect both the body and the mind. When you
become anxious, your body releases a hormone called adrenaline. It
is nature's way of warning you that danger (both real and imagined)
is imminent.
As anxiety increases, you may experience symptoms such as a
pounding heart, quickened breathing and perspiration. The more you
worry about something, the stronger these symptoms are likely to
become.
Many people experience mild to moderate episodes of anxiety. For
some, such nervousness may interfere with their ability to enjoy
life fully. However, there are steps you can take to reduce or even
eliminate your anxious feelings.
Three-Step Solution
There are many ways to reduce anxiety. Three of the most
effective are:
Set aside a time to worry. Do you find yourself fretting about
things periodically throughout the day? If so, you are probably
living with a constant and unhealthy low-level hum of
anxiety.
To fix this problem, set aside a period of each day where you do
nothing but worry. Think about the issues you face and potential
solutions for up to 30 minutes. After the time has expired, make a
vow not to think about your problem again until your anxiety time
the following day.
Confront subjects that have triggered past bouts of anxiety.
Your anxiety level is particularly likely to spike prior to
situations that have provoked angst in the past. If you broke out
in a cold sweat and stuttered during your last PowerPoint
presentation, odds are good that the butterflies will awaken in
your stomach shortly before the next go-round.
Prior to an anxiety-provoking event, try to visualize yourself in
the situation. If this makes you feel anxious, try a relaxation
technique to see if this calms your feelings. Later, when the
real-life situation makes you nervous, try these techniques again
and see if they have a calming effect.
Also, prepare yourself as much as possible prior to the event. You
are much less likely to feel anxious if you are confident and in
control of your situation. For example, someone who studies
diligently before a test is much less likely to experience
exam-related anxiety than a peer who tries to cram in all
preparation the night before the test.
Take care of your body and mind. One of the best ways to
prevent anxiety is to take care of yourself. Numerous studies show
that physically fit, well-rested and contented people are less
likely to be vulnerable to bouts of anxiety.
For example, people who maintain close relationships have a network
of support that makes them less vulnerable to anxiety. Taking the
time to enjoy life and to engage in hobbies you enjoy helps reduce
levels of both stress and anxiety.
Relaxation techniques, such as deep breathing, can also help. In
this exercise, you lie down on a flat surface. Place one hand on
your stomach above the navel, and the other hand on your chest.
Breathe in slowly until the stomach rises a bit and hold your
breath for a second. Then, exhale slowly.
Muscle relaxation, in which you tense and relax your muscles
one by one, is also used by some to reduce anxiety. Some people
benefit from yoga or meditation.
Studies show that regular exercise is one of the best ways to ward
off anxiety and to build a stronger sense of well-being. It's also
important to avoid overindulging in unhealthy foods, and to avoid
abuse of alcohol, drugs (both legal and illegal) and stimulants
such as caffeine.
Finally, be sure to get plenty of rest. A full night's sleep
relaxes both body and mind and makes you less susceptible to
anxious thoughts.