Ovarian Cancer: Dealing Day-to-Day
Reviewed By:
Martin E. Liebling, M.D., FACP
Living with ovarian cancer on a daily basis presents medical and
emotional challenges. There is no single strategy that can help you
with the disease. Everyone copes differently, and you need to find
the strategies that work best for you.
- Seek help when you need it
Management of the disease and the side effects from treatment can
be overwhelming. If you are having difficulties, identify the
symptoms and contact your cancer care team. In many instances,
these symptoms may be related to your treatment and can be
effectively addressed with established techniques. It is better to
seek advice rather than wait to see if the symptoms will just
disappear.
Do not be afraid to seek help from different professions. Consult
physicians, psychologists and professionals in alternative medicine
for information. These people are trained to help you deal with
your cancer. In addition, family members and friends will offer to
help you in so many different ways. Accept meals when they offer to
cook, or visit with them if they wish to cheer you up. Friends and
family can provide a tremendous amount of support.
- Keep a positive outlook
There are several ways to maintain a positive outlook. Obtain as
much information as possible about your disease. If you understand
your cancer and the treatments available, you will feel more in
control of your life. Seek out support groups and survivors of your
type of cancer. Those who have lived with the disease can provide
you with a wealth of information. Survivors can give you tips on
how to cope with physical and emotional challenges.
Eliminate negativity and stress as much as possible. These elements
can only work against you. Instead, find things that raise your
spirits. Do your favorite things with your favorite people. This
will help you maintain a positive outlook for your life.
- Maintain communication with those around
you
It is very easy to fall into your own world and not share your
feelings and concerns. Doing this may only isolate you from those
who love you and want to lend their support. Share your thoughts,
fears and hopes with your family, friends and caregivers. By
talking and listening to others, you can obtain a deeper
relationship and gain insight into your life.
Be sure to keep communication open with your cancer care team. They
can best help you if you maintain close communication with them. If
they do not know your difficulties or concerns, they cannot address
the issues. Their main goal is to provide you with the best care
possible. They can do this only if you are honest about your
condition and you communicate your needs.
- Surround yourself with a nurturing
environment
Make your home as cheerful and comforting as possible. Surround
yourself with the items that bring you the most joy
‑- photographs, flowers, memoirs. These things
will raise your spirits and keep you focused on the positive
elements in your life. Also, have people around you that are
caring, encouraging and optimistic. They can provide you with the
emotional boost you need in the difficult times.
If you are a spiritual person, rely on your faith to give you
strength and guidance. Spend time with people who can support you
and your faith, perhaps members of the religious community. Many
people find comfort in prayer or meditation. Create a place in your
home where you feel you can seek solace and practice your
faith.
When dealing with any serious illness, it is important for you to
realize that everyone handles the situation differently. Try to
find which elements give you the greatest strength and outlook.
There are many resources to help you and your family deal with
ovarian cancer.
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