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Creating the right atmosphere can play a large role in the success of weaning. Potential distractions should be eliminated. Parents or caregivers are urged to remain patient, as it usually takes longer for a child to finish a meal of solid foods than to finish a meal of breast milk or formula. Children are likely to play with solid foods, which is normal and should not be discouraged.
Weaning is often a period of emotional adjustment for parents and children, particularly when a child has been breastfed. Children who struggle to make the emotional transition from breastfeeding to solid foods may benefit by participating in a fun activity during times when they would normally breastfeed. In addition, they may adjust better if weaning is attempted at a point when they have no significant outside stresses in their lives, such as starting at a new childcare facility.
Children who are adjusting to weaning sometimes begin to suck their thumb or to engage in a similar habit. Such habits are comforting to the child and should not be discouraged during this time of transition.
Mothers who breastfeed may also find weaning to be a time of transition, particularly in terms of emotion. Mothers are urged to think about the positive aspects of weaning a breastfed child – not only does it signal a major milestone in the baby’s maturation process, but it can also give the mother increased freedom and flexibility. Mothers can overcome feelings of sadness about no longer nursing by avoiding sitting in the spot where they used to breastfeed or making sure they are busy with something new and exciting at times when they previously breastfed. |